Letting go … How can you do that?
You can let go while focusing on the positive things in your life. You can be content with yourself instead of comparing yourself to others. There may be times you lose sight of the wonderful person you are.
You look in the mirror and see flaws. You don’t like what you see.
You try to change. You compare yourself to others and try to create the person you see in them.
Negative words spoken to you while growing up carve spaces in your mind. You look at those negative messages but may not fit into them now at all yet still believe them.
They’re difficult to erase. Your negative messages build until they sculpt your emotions while creating large crevices that need filling.
Only, you can change those negative messages.
Only, you can start to look at yourself and form the portrait you really are.
You can bring it forward.
You must never give up your strength of mind to accomplish this. Perhaps, by letting go you can change yourself into the real you.
You just have to be okay with yourself.
2015©IsadoraDeLaVega
Zen Snow Monkeys in a Hot Springs, Japan
Namaste
I honor the place in you
in which the entire universe dwells.
I honor the place in you
which is of Love, and of Truth,
of Light and of Peace.
When you are in that place in you
and I am in that place in me.
We are One
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December 16, 2015 at 11:22 pm
Those snow monkeys know something we should learn! 🙂
I’ve been trying to let go of the feeling that I’m slowly deteriorating! I’ve had a toothache for over 3 weeks. Had a root canal done last week, but the pain is still there. UGH! My Zen has flown the coop! 😐
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December 15, 2015 at 12:27 pm
Loved this post and the video. Delightful. We can change only our attitude towards negative comments.
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December 15, 2015 at 3:56 pm
Very, Very true, Indira.
Namaste 🙏
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December 14, 2015 at 8:45 pm
Hi Isadora, your post is a perfect answer for my dream post, letting go and making peace with ourselves. yes, I am working hard on these. Namaste!
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December 14, 2015 at 11:33 pm
Letting go and making peace with issues we have can take time. We can focus on being positive.
We can focus on trying to change. We can even fool ourselves and think it’s gone. But, back in the recesses
of our memory is a black crevice with those thoughts. It’s in learning to say, “OK, you’re there but I’m here;
now, accept that and go back to that small space. I no longer want to be feeding you what you want.” Time …
is the great healer.
Namaste
Isadora 🙏
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December 12, 2015 at 11:18 pm
Just watching the snow monkeys distracted me from a lot of that pointless mental chatter, at least for the moment! Thanks Isadora. 🙂
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December 15, 2015 at 1:10 am
The snow monkeys are wonderful as a reminder on how to stop and destress.
Thank you, Meg, for enjoying this weeks nurture.
Namaste 🙏
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December 12, 2015 at 8:25 pm
Very true, Isadora… thanks for the reminder!
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December 15, 2015 at 1:09 am
You’re very welcome, Tom. I think we all need reminders from time to time.
Thanks for popping in for a visit and leaving a comment.
Isadora 😎
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December 12, 2015 at 4:46 pm
Excellent advice, Issy ~ particularly number 10!! It’s very easy to take ourselves too seriously and it can be hard to let go of conditioned responses, so this is an excellent reminder to keep nurturing ourselves with positivity. The monkeys are so serene, it’s relaxing to watch them! 🙂
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December 12, 2015 at 4:01 pm
Who could NOT learn from this? Trouble is, remembering not to forget. Namaste…
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December 15, 2015 at 1:19 am
Kind words … thank you. I believe we all need reminders from time to time.
But, a good belly laugh can make blue skies roll away. Hope you have a lot of
them during this holiday season.
Namaste 🙏
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December 12, 2015 at 9:08 am
Namaste Issy, I shall that on you when I belly laugh today ❤
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December 15, 2015 at 1:17 am
I enjoy laughing a lot but it’s still difficult to enjoy a good laugh once a day.
But, it sounds like a nice goal.
Namaste 🙏
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December 12, 2015 at 12:43 am
I love to see your new home page Izzy …lol I been lost here for a long time miss your post
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December 15, 2015 at 1:15 am
Yes, Jake, it’s been awhile. It’s difficult to keep up the pace at times.
I hope to see you here visiting again. I will have to pop over to your blog real soon.
I asked Santa for more time. I hope he brings some. Thank you for enjoying my new blog theme.
I think it best describes me. Be well … be healthy … be at peace
Namaste 🙏
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December 11, 2015 at 9:53 pm
Lovely, lovely words…I will try to remember. hugs…
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December 15, 2015 at 1:16 am
We all need reminders from time to time. Thank you for enjoying my nurture post.
Peace be with you ….
Namaste 🙏
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December 11, 2015 at 2:18 pm
Great post and the snow monkeys are so cute!
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December 15, 2015 at 1:11 am
Cute and wonderfully at peace ….
Namaste 🙏
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December 15, 2015 at 1:13 am
Yes, they are! Feliz Navidad 🙂
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December 15, 2015 at 1:21 am
Gracias y Feliz Navidad para usted y su familia.
(translation-thank you and Merry Christmas to you and your family.) 🎄😄
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December 15, 2015 at 1:23 am
Thank you! (And thank you for the translation). I also wish this for your family.
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December 11, 2015 at 1:34 pm
The opening graphic is powerful … and the zen monkeys support the point. Cheers to your thoughts and outlook on life!
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December 15, 2015 at 1:23 am
Kind and encouraging words … thank you, aFrank. I wake up everyday striving to master a peaceful and stress free life.
Namaste … 🙏
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December 11, 2015 at 12:18 pm
Best decalogue ever / simple and not always easy…
Enjoy a beautiful weekend, my dear Isadora! 🙂
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December 11, 2015 at 11:34 am
A wonderful NT post! Thank you for sharing! Namaste ~ ❤
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December 11, 2015 at 2:40 pm
Namaste 🙏🏻
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