Inside the Mind of Isadora

Never Deprive Children

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IMG_2836Jeffrey

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My grandson graduated from Kindergarten last weekend. Sitting in the audience were his mother, father, step-mother and step-sister. They watched proudly and peacefully together as one unit. No, they aren’t the normal family. The normal family of mother, father and siblings has morphed drastically over the years.

As parents to this sweet little boy, they knew this was a special day for him. His mother and father wanted to show their pride and support for his accomplishment. Their number one priority was their son.

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Nicole & Jeffrey

They wanted him to feel he’s loved equally by both. They show respect to the other parent. They communicate with each other and don’t use their son as a pawn. It’s difficult. But, when you put your child first your feelings just don’t seem that important. When you see a big smile on a child’s face that say, “I am loved.” There’s no need to say anything else.

IMG_2834Nicole, Jeffrey and Father *****

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Divorce or separation is an emotionally exhausting experience. Two people who met, fell madly in love and vowed they would be together forever are now enemies. Divorce and separation pits two people against each other. It’s as if a letter arrived in the mail saying, “Time to get out of here and fast before the bombs arrive.”

No one can answer the question, “Why?”

It happens. The two people involved are the only ones who know.

But, what about the children?

They are the silent victims. They can’t speak their minds.  Or, can they? In this video this a six year old little girl gives her mom a wake up call as she is saying a great deal.

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Divorce and separation is an adult issue. Don’t deprive your child or children of the love of the other parent because of issues you have with them. They will always hold you responsible for their loss of love.

2016©Isadora DeLaVega

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***** Although no longer together, they manage to keep their personal feelings aside as shown in the 3rd. photo.

Author: Inside the Mind of Isadora

Intriguing, sensitive, mysterious, loving, artistic and crackling with excitement for life is a pretty good description of who I am. I just retired from the world of art where I sold my Artfully Designed Handmade Jewelry for 28 years; although, art will always be a part of whom I am no matter what venue I choose to express it.

14 thoughts on “Never Deprive Children

  1. This fractured?extended family situation is increasingly becoming ‘normal’ Issy ~ it has happened with both my adult children and it important to keep everything on a friendly level to avoid hurting the children even more. I’ve watched that video a couple of times and it brings me to tears ~ ‘Out of the mouths of babes..’ is so true in this instance! 🙂

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  2. A great message and lovely family photos, Issy.

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  4. Your grandson is adorable! Congratulations to him for graduating from kindergarten! The little girl in the video is precious and has a very good message!

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  5. Very good description of deprive. Very similar to mine.

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  6. What an incredible child, thanks Issy!

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