When we reflect on our lives we can’t help but include in our thoughts the one person who’s had the most influence on us:
‘Our Mother.’
She forms the person we’ll be from the beginning of conception. We’re who we are because of her. Despite the way we may feel about her, she is the major player in the formation of our lives.
There are lessons a mother teaches us but it’s always up to us to put them into effect.
It’s always up to us to be in charge of our decisions.
Sometimes, we ruminate and get stuck on what we weren’t given.
This shouldn’t matter.
For in the end, if we fail or if we succeed, we should never forget that the final choices are always up to us.
The poem below reflects a Mother’s words eloquently … enjoy the Secret Garden as you read.
Namaste, Isadora
2017©Isadora DeLaVega
Namaste
I honor the place in you
in which the entire universe dwells.
I honor the place in you
which is of Love, and of Truth,
of Light and of Peace.
When you are in that place in you
and I am in that place in me.
We are One.
Secret Garden – Reflection
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Reflections of a Mother…
I gave you life, but cannot live it for you.
I can teach you things, but I cannot make you learn.
I can give you directions, but I cannot be there to lead you.
I can allow you freedom, but I cannot account for it.
I can take you to church, but I cannot make you believe.
I can teach you right from wrong, but I cannot always decide for you.
I can buy you beautiful clothes, but I cannot make you beautiful inside.
I can offer you advice, but I cannot accept it for you.
I can give you love, but I cannot force it upon you.
I can teach you to share, but I cannot make you unselfish.
I can teach you respect, but I cannot force you to show honor.
I can advise you about friends, but cannot choose them for you.
I can advise you about sex, but I cannot keep you pure.
I can tell you the facts of life, but I can’t build your reputation.
I can tell you about drink, but I can’t say “no” for you.
I can warn you about drugs, but I can’t prevent you from using them.
I can tell you about lofty goals, but I can’t achieve them for you.
I can teach you about kindness, but I can’t force you to be gracious.
I can warn you about sins, but I cannot make you moral.
I can pray for you, but I cannot make you walk with God.
I can tell you how to live, but I cannot give you eternal life.
I can love you with unconditional love all of my life
….. and I will.
~~~ Author Unknown ~~~
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May 18, 2017 at 5:06 am
Beautiful poem and excellent tribute to all mothers on Mother’s day.
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May 18, 2017 at 1:20 pm
Despite our relationships with them, it’s because of them that we exist. Thank you, Indira, for visiting and commenting. : )
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May 19, 2017 at 12:33 pm
So true dear.
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May 14, 2017 at 2:56 pm
And often we don’t understand what mom was trying to teach until much later…
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May 14, 2017 at 7:32 pm
Yes, we understand much later. The lessons live on inside of us even when they’re long gone.
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May 14, 2017 at 5:32 am
Hello Isadora
Beautiful poem for Mother’s Day
In Poland Mother’s Day is celebrated on May 26.
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May 14, 2017 at 7:34 pm
Thank you, Marko. Our mothers are always our guides even when they’re gone.
Isadora 😎
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May 13, 2017 at 3:55 pm
Perfect post for the week’s challenge and for Mother’s day Issy. Very special
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May 13, 2017 at 8:50 pm
Hi Tina,
I didn’t realize that I had added the same word as the photography challenge to this title.
I’m glad you thouught it was a fitting post. My wordpress challenge is on my photography blog.
https://isadoraartandphotography.com/2017/05/11/reflecting-the-rising-sun/
Hope your Sunday is filled with overflowing love. 💐
Issy 😎
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May 13, 2017 at 6:21 am
Such a beautiful post Isadora! Just love it.
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May 13, 2017 at 8:51 pm
Smiling at your lovely comment, Rupali. Thank you …
Isadora 😎
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May 14, 2017 at 6:59 am
Hope you a have a great day Isadora!
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May 14, 2017 at 7:34 pm
😎
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May 12, 2017 at 3:47 pm
Lovely, Issy, both words and photos. I especially like that first photo.
janet
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May 13, 2017 at 12:54 am
I’m happy you enjoyed this post, Janet. I had another in mind but remembered there was a special day coming up and switched. 😊 Thank you
Have a loving and happy Mother’s Day 💐
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May 13, 2017 at 1:00 am
You, too.
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May 13, 2017 at 1:52 pm
💐
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May 12, 2017 at 2:43 pm
What a beautiful and poignant poem! Happy Mother’s Day Isadora!
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May 13, 2017 at 12:57 am
It’s interesting the way we can look at our Mothers words long after they’re gone and realize why they said them to us. Hope you have a special day on Sunday with your new fur-child. May she bring you more love than your hearts ♥️ can hold. 😎🌸🌈
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May 13, 2017 at 1:57 am
Oh yes, Isadora, that is so true! Our mother’s words will always be with us even when they no longer are. Thank you so much! Sugar is a cutie! She is also a obnoxious puppy! Haha!
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May 13, 2017 at 8:55 pm
I’m sure, Sugar, is going to be the light that shines in your eyes.
Happy Sunday 💐
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May 13, 2017 at 9:35 pm
Thank you so much Isadora! Happy Sunday and Happy Mother’s Day to you!!
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May 11, 2017 at 8:59 pm
What a beautiful as well as comforting post for Mother’s Day! Thank you for sharing — and Happy Mother’s Day to you! ❤
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May 13, 2017 at 12:59 am
Sweet words bringing a smile to my face. May your day. E filled with the warmth your mother blessed you with
Happy 😊 Mothers Day 😍🌸🌈
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