It’s been a year now.
As I put the key in the door, I remember the day I realized I had to move in.
My father had always been demanding. I was reluctant to take on the responsibility.
Sure, I could have added him to the long list of seniors waiting for a room at the senior assisted living. But, after all, he was my dad.
On that summer morning, my father tried to open the neighbors’ door, helping me make my decision.
His memory was fading. Confused and exasperated, he called. I knew he was desperate. He would never admit his decline.
After he died, an older gentleman approached me at the wake.
He said, “You’re a good son.”
Sadly, Alzheimer’s had prevented my father from telling me.
2021©Isadora DeLaVega
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November 22, 2021 at 6:43 am
So sad for so many. Well-expressed, Isadora.
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November 23, 2021 at 12:27 am
I feel the illness is becoming more prevalent.
I’m pleased you enjoyed my story. Thank you …
Have a good week … Isadora 😎
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November 18, 2021 at 1:35 pm
Such a touching tale. Hearing that from a stranger must have been heartwarming.
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November 18, 2021 at 11:37 pm
I would imagine anyone hearing a compliment after a relative passes might be comforting. Thank you, Keith.
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November 16, 2021 at 2:16 am
Oh such a poignant story Isadora. Loved the ending lines. Thanks for joining in.
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November 16, 2021 at 12:51 pm
Thank you, Sadje. It’s such a complex disease. It robs family and friends in so many ways. Glad you enjoyed … Have a lovely week. Isadora 😎
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November 16, 2021 at 2:21 pm
It is Isadora! Heartbreaking for the family.
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November 15, 2021 at 9:54 pm
Another example of the golden years being very tarnished.
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November 16, 2021 at 12:54 pm
It’s a complex disease in a destructive way.
Thanks for reading and commenting, aFrank.
Have a good week … Isadora 😎
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November 15, 2021 at 7:46 pm
Well done – you really highlighted the complexity with dementia and I like how you used the photo to tell a little tale about it
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November 16, 2021 at 1:58 pm
It is a complex disease and difficult for family to navigate. Thanks .. Isadora 😎
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November 16, 2021 at 11:37 pm
😉🙏
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