Summer is freedom for a child. Your school vacation begins.
No more homework, no more tests, and no more uniforms. I attended
Catholic school, wearing shorts and t-shirts was a respite from formality.
My family lived in an area of three-story brownstones in Brooklyn, N.Y. Pools weren’t anywhere in my neighborhood. There was a pool within a twenty-five minute bus ride. We never went there.
Sunday was our beach day in the summer. My father loved the beach.
Despite our no school discipline, he had a routine we had to follow.
We still attended mass on Saturday.
Sunday, we’d awake at 6:00 a.m., get dressed, grab our towels, pails, and shovels and be in the car at 7:00 a.m. It was an hour’s drive to Staten Island on a ferry. It was such fun to get out of the car and lean on the railing, feeling the ocean’s mist on my face.
Once we arrived at the beach, we all had items to carry to the water’s edge. My father cooked potato salad and fried chicken the night before. He was a cook in the army. He enjoyed cooking on the weekends. I was learning how to cook from him at age 5.
My task at the beach was to take care of my younger disabled brother. He was five years old, and I was ten. I’d collect shells with him and build things in the sand.
One Sunday, my father decided to teach all of us to swim. We watched him from the shore. He looked like a dolphin. I was apprehensive even though it looked like fun. It was my turn. He picked me up and took me way, way out. Eventually, he dropped me in the water.
Gurgle, Gurgle, Gurgle,
I swallowed water, flailed my arms, and thought I would drown.
After an eternity, my father picked me back up and walked me to shore. I cried and cried and cried. I was inconsolable. I never went in the water again. The sandy seashore was my safe place from that day forward.
I never did learn to swim, but I do doggie paddle in my pool. Many have tried to teach me, but my fear still lingers from that day. When my children could walk, I took them for swimming lessons. They’re all great swimmers, and one is Red Cross certified. I knew how much they would enjoy the beach, pool, and boating if they learned how to swim.
Learning to Swim never happened for me.
2022©Isadora DeLaVega
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Throw Back Thursday April 14, 2022 # 34 – Learning to Swim
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April 20, 2022 at 1:01 am
Opps..maybe you should swim and hang on to a float..LOL
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April 20, 2022 at 1:05 am
I have a pool in my backyard area. I do use a float in order to go over to the deep side and dangle my feet to stretch my back.Good exercise for the legs too. I look child-like but no one can see me since I live on a lake. LOLOL
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April 20, 2022 at 1:11 am
Ha!
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April 16, 2022 at 12:20 pm
Sometimes, Isadora, things come naturally, other times they don’t. Looks like swimming for you is one of those other times. I manage with swimming, but don’t like my face getting wet 🙄 or going under water, so do it in my own style.
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April 16, 2022 at 9:11 pm
Ironically, hubby and I have been on 26 cruises and it never occured to me to worry about not being able to swim. 😄 I guess when it’s your time, it’s your time. My pool goes from 3 1/2 feet to 6 feet long. My daughter was trying to teach me on the 3 /1/2′ side. No luck … 😂 I’ll sit on a lounge chair with a cocktail instead. 😄
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April 17, 2022 at 2:34 pm
Lounge chair and cocktails by the pool is pretty close to swimming… yes, that’s a good compromise. 🙂
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April 16, 2022 at 3:25 am
Thank you for joining in. How sad that the experience caused so much trauma. The rest of your story was very lovely.
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April 16, 2022 at 2:30 pm
I believe he meant well but went about it in an extreme way. I enjoyed the challenge. I’m happy you foubd ny story was lovely.
Happy Easter … Isadora 😎
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April 17, 2022 at 12:17 am
Happy Easter to you. We had a lovely Passover.
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April 16, 2022 at 3:04 am
If only Dad realised the ramifications of his actions. Not a good way to teach. A lovely story otherwise Isadora 🙂
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April 16, 2022 at 2:33 pm
He thought he was doing a good thing but it didn’t turn out well. I’m glad you found the story was lovely. Thank you … Isadora 😎
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April 16, 2022 at 1:08 am
That’s terrible. We look to our parents for security. I’m sorry that happened to you 😦
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April 16, 2022 at 7:33 pm
I’m not happy it happened but we move on and hope that these things
teach us lessons. For me, it was giving my children swimming lessons.
Thank you, Paula for readong and commenting.
Have a good weekend … Isadora 😎
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April 15, 2022 at 11:14 pm
A thoroughly enjoyable story, full of lovely memories, except for ‘your swimming’. I’ve always loved the beach, having being brought up near the beach…. Here in Australia, all children are taught to swim at school, it’s a part of the school curriculum ..
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April 16, 2022 at 9:32 pm
What a wonderful idea to teach children in scholl how to swim.
I still love the beach despite my trauma. I’vea ccepted near the shore
with a glass of fine wine. 😀 I’m glad you enjoyed my memories on swimming.
Have a good weekend … Isadora 😎
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April 16, 2022 at 9:36 pm
You’re welcome Isadora
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April 15, 2022 at 10:25 pm
Except for the swimming, these are such wonderful memories. Thanks for sharing them.
janet
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April 16, 2022 at 9:30 pm
They were fun Sundays despite the early start to the day.
I suppose my father wanted us to learn to swim but didn’t
realize he didn;t have teaching skills. Thanks Janet.
Have a Blessed Easter 🙏🏻 Isadora 😎
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April 15, 2022 at 10:17 pm
Isadora, I am so glad you decided to join us in this weekly challenge. I never thwould would learn to swim either, but at 42, with the calmest and kindestt teacher, I managed to do it. It sounds like your dad was pretty special. 💕
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April 16, 2022 at 7:38 pm
Thank you for the lovely welcome, Maggie.
I believe my father had good intentions in trying to teach his children to swim.
But, he went about it in a wrong way. I believe we learn lessons from events in our lives.
For me, it was knowing that my children needed swimming lessons from people who know how to teach.
Happy Easter 🐣 have a good weekend … Isadora 😎
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April 16, 2022 at 10:00 pm
Yes, we do learn from the mistakes of others. Happy Easter to you as well.
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